Alright i have been trying seriously detach. But its gone nowhere due tot he fact that my W is constantly in face. Spent the last two night going out to GAL and a great time. But when I get home, its W sitting or laying next to me on the bed. Telling me about her day or asking me about mine. Living in the same home makes this impossible. If you were looking at us from the outside you would find it hard to believe that we are on the verge of the BD.
I am validating, 180s and GAL. But still she doesn't want to be in the MR. At this point, I am going to give up detaching while were still in the same house. But I will do so whenever I am out of town for training. Which will be every other week over the next four weeks. Maybe that will do something, but its hard to really miss your H who is always there. And my 180 is actually being more attentive to her. But still giving her space.
