ILYBINILWY - OW - what to do next

[Coconut]

SJW, no matter what, you need to work on you before you can work on "us".. If he stays gone for a bit, that will help you focus on you, baby steps. First figure out what you can do for 180's and for GAL.

What does being the best mom ever look like to you? Do those things with your kids during the week, after school... for the weekends, make plans to do something, and ask WH if he wants to spend time with kids (yes or no question) if not find another way, but GAL.

If he stays gone, it's the best thing for your sanity right now, his A is either going to flourish or fail right now, but either way you have to work on you before you could even think about working on "us"