That's what my dad said --- he said it's all going to come crashing down on H again, that it's all so predictable.
He thinks he's going to hurry up and buy a house and live this great life and that I'm the problem I'm holding him back etc etc. he said in a few months or maybe longer he will be back crying to my dad about what he's done.
That's why my dad gave me the same advice to step back and let his world fall apart without me so that he can see the common denominator is him. However my dad doesn't want me to save this marriage. He has told me Many times if I take him back he cannot be in my life the way he is now because then he said there's something wrong with me to put myself through this again.
