I think tonight I'm just going to go to the gym and tomorrow I'm going to tell him I have plans in the evening and need him to watch the kids. He had last weekend off.
In regards to the schedule that is a conversation that needs to happen but he's living at his boss house and has the boss daughter (who is 32 with a 12 year old) present there. Not an environment I want my kids sleeping at. So I will give it a couple weeks of no R talks and then pursue the schedule. UNLESS He pulls this concert I have plans I'm not coming by stuff.
He told me he would stay here two nights a week being mondays and Wednesday's. IF he continues to talk to OW I will have to approach that while he's staying the night in the house. That's not something I'm going to do now but it will be eventually.
Anyway my plan is gym tonight and out with friends tomorrow night. I won't stay the night out. The baby is too young for me to be gone overnight. I will only go out for a few hours and probably will come home around 12ish. It will probably make him happy I'm going out so that he will feel justified in continuing his R with boss daughter. That's what happened last time. He saw me out via FB friends tagging me. Then he started posting about him and OW being out. So that will be a xonsequence I have to deal with.
