You apparently think I have had a conversation with S13 already. Which I have not. Right now I'm just figuring out how to address a question that I know is coming. Not trying to make my son hate anyone, but if that happens, then W has to look in the mirror at how her actions caused that. And if S13 is mad at me for not being a better H, then I have to live with that.
Was seriously hoping to avoid this conversation. But my W telling S13 the truth last week changes all that. I have no plans on bringing up the topic, but my son is very mature for his age. And knows that he can come to both his parents with anything.