If it's just to support your choices, then say so. Then we know where you stand.
If it's to save your M and yourself, sometimes you'll have to listen, digest, and make changes.
Posters post for free, especially the vets,on their own time all with a common goal, to help others. Sometimes we tell people what they don't want to hear but need to hear to help them accomplish a goal.
You can take that personally, or you can really take the time to understand because you have a group of strangers who want to help you achieve your goals.
