Gordie I am happy to share my opinions but I don't fully understand your question. My M is sex starved but not only. I am working on improving the rest with glacial progress. I believe it is possible to turn my situation around.time will tell.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together