Everyone is free to take the approach to saving their m that they want, and to do their best. I know you are in pain and I'm so sorry that you are.
But your approach is just Not a DivorceBusting approach that you're taking and you're on this site telling us all that it is. That it is all of us who just don't get it. You are not the first DB guy from the UK either.
Anyhow, do as you will. God knows I wish you the best.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016