My suggestion for you right now, is give her space. Be friendly, be kind, be there for her when she approaches you (validate), but give her time and space. While she's getting space to work on her, you keep working on yourself. I'd recommend reconnecting with friends and doing lots of things with them, or doing things that will help you make new friends. It will really help you to be passionate about life, and passion is sexy to her. 1. If your sleeping in the same room, do not pressure intimacy or relationship conversations at bedtime. 2. Don’t initiate any conversation talks, only have them if she initiates and make sure you validate her feelings, you don’t need to agree, but you need to verbalize that you understand how “SHE” feels about it. 3. If she questions why you’ve backed off, offer up that you’ve noticed that she’s struggling with trying to figure things out and you want to give her the space she needs to figure out what she wants.
All things discussed last night, even if I didn't mention it in my post.
We are sleeping in the same room but I have backed off. I have backed off on all forms of intimacy. I've told her that I have stopped it to give her space, and its there if she wants it.
