The house thing isn't a control issue for me... as much as it is the permanent decision of him leaving me behind.
I don't really care about his purchases as he bought the motorcycle without involving me. He pretty much gets to do what he wants comes and goes as he pleases even before BD.
How do I save my M? What am I supposed to do? I feel so lost ... part of me wants to shake him and say what are you doing we have this beaitudo family. Why aren't we enough ??? The other part of me wants to say I know what you've been doing I know what you're up to please don't insult my intelligence and walk away.
