Good, I want him to be mad and dislike the man who threatened the life of his father. And if his mother chooses to lay up with a man who threatened me harm, then she will have to deal with the consequences.
Tread, back when I was your S's age my mom left my dad and my dad tried to use us kids (and me in particular since I was the oldest) as pawns to get revenge on mom. He told me how awful she was for leaving, how she was sleeping with another man, and had to pay the consequences, etc. etc. A lot of the same stuff I hear you saying. Guess what dude, she was my mom and I loved her like all boys love their moms. My dad doing all that crap just made me look at HIM and wonder who this angry, hateful monster was that replaced the dad I knew. To this day I don't look at him the same, especially now that I know that a lot of the reason that mom left was because of HIS behavior towards her. You're going down a very dark path and YOU are the one that will look bad to your S as a result of it.
