A's never right but I will not mention her A or our R UNLESS she brings it up and then my charge neutral goals kick in and I don't raise to her challenging me about anything. If she continues to argue I politely ask her to go away.
Thanks I agree on working on me for me and will continue to do just that.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".