Why are you so convinced it is you that is causing him to make this decision?

This man is not happy with himself.

let me ask you, do YOU think you were such a horrible wife or person that he HAD to do this?

I see this as a man who wants no true responsibility in his life. I honestly think he is freaking about about being a dad to 3 kids which means lots of sacrifices on his part. No working at all hours, concerts, trips....... he is really struggling with his responsibilities.

You can own your side of the street, but you can't own his.