Here again part 7

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For me the key is that WAH is not asking to make the marriage work, he has basically declared that he is no longer a husband. To me this is very different than if they were living together and going to counseling still. In this situation I can't forsee anything constructive coming out of a confrontation.

I understand the point about T0 placing a value on her self respect. I think she can do that by conducting herself in a way that rises above her anger.

T0, can you call a DB coach? I really think this would be the best move at this point. Have you done this yet?

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