TO- I have a fear for you. I am afraid you don't want to confront the cheating because if he comes back, you would like to sweep it under the rug to have a better chance at reconciliation. I feel like the EA and untruthfulness may have not been dealt with the first time around. And as you see, when it isn't deal with, it resurfaces.
I am not saying deal with it now. Would I? Yes. because I swept my ex's cheating and untruthfulness before we got married by ignoring it out of fear he would just run away. Look where that got me!
Let's say you leave it alone now. If you do reconcile, you are going to have to deal with it. It can't be an elephant in the room.
