Wife wants to leave marriage 2

[Coconut]

You're angry Tread, I get it... Let your anger out on me, but let that anger out before you make decisions that affect your kids. I wish I remembered the screen names of those who told their kids and then regretted it so I could link them for you, but it's been months since I've read them. I do remember one that incited that anger in his child, in fact so angry that the child assaulted his mother.

Then guess what happened, they reconciled, and not only did they have to work on piecing, but they also had to work on the fact that the son hated his mother.

It is your child, your family, your life and you get to make whatever decision you want. But I'm suggesting that it may make things worse, worse for your Son, worse for your sitch, and is not something you should take lightly.

I'll let others speak to the likeliness of a judge preventing your WW from having OM around kids, but my understanding is that is not likely to happen, especially if they move in together.

Whatever you decide, just make that decision with an understanding that your son getting angry at your WW isn't going to make her stop, but will be another barrier to a possible reconciliation.