If you are confident you're stable enough to spend some time around him without letting emotions overwhelm you it might be ok. But I don't know you're there yet.

As far as what Train is saying, I don't really see a conflict. The question is not whether you take him back or not, or whether you are ok with another woman or not. None of this is ok with you, and he's not asking you to take him back. So none of this seems relevant today. What is relevant is what kind of person you want to be.

As of now you haven't been able to come up with a good answer for why you aren't confronting him. You said "it wouldn't change anything" and "it would only make him hate you more" which is a start. But I can think of much better reasons than that. I personally think giving some serious thought to this question is one of the most productive things you can do.

You're doing good T0. Keep it up.

Last edited by Cadet; 06/21/17 01:07 PM. Reason: Start a new thread message
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