So, "If I had a FB status, it might still say "in a relationship" - giving him false hope."

Okay, true enough but then: "I've told sociopath ex boyfriend that there's no possibility of us dating until he is at least a year into sobriety."

And how is THAT not false hope? I mean, just trying to keep it real here. Are they BOTH not false hope?

DonH
Midwest
Me 56
WAW-EXW 55
Met 11/95 / Married 5/00
Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06
4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D