WF, yesterday my XW came by to pick up S and sat down for a while to tell me about her vacation and some stuff going on at work. Reading your updates got me to thinking about what recon with her would look like, and I honestly just can't picture it. I was just sitting there looking at her and listening to her and thinking, was I really married to her? It seems so long ago, and like someone else's life rather than mine. At this point it wouldn't even really be reconciling, it would be starting over again from ground zero. And would I want to? She's a sweet person, but I don't even feel the slightest pang of attraction anymore. If I gave it any effort it would simply be because of our history together and because of the kids, but at their ages I'm not sure that would have any benefit for them anymore. We've all healed and moved on I think. I'm just curious if your thoughts are along those lines as well, or are you giving thought to possible recon?
