Thanks, Bfly! I'll take that well-deserved 2x4. As I said, I came to that same conclusion after sleeping on it; but hearing you say it (visually, on the screen!) just solidified the whole mental head-slap. I plead temporary insanity from worry!
I did do the follow up call this morning (actually I texted, he called) because I told him I would. It was nice and he really is feeling better(but sore), so Im good with the decision to back off. The Ds will take care of him. And I have a lot of reading to do...about therapy. Maybe I'll learn me some stuff...
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16