I have to agree with the others. You could have paid $200 and not received such useful advice. What's more East many of us are seeing and saying the same things. Not all of us have been able to write as eloquently as Cadence has but we see it. Can all of us really be wrong and you are correct? This is an easy call. As Cadence said, it's far easier to see this and follow advice for others. It's really hard when it's us.
I also find it telling that your only response is to yet again defend and try to explain it away. If so, what do you hope to take away from here?
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D