Wsh I decided to ask her since it peaked my curiosity. Asked her can we buy a new house? Here's response:
"You're special to me. You always will be. I just needed more from a relationship and from life. There's things that I want that you hold me back from. You didn't want a nicer home, we both settled for that home. And while I do love our home, you never had any ambition to fix it up like I wanted too. I wanted to work on things and make it better. You were always complacent. "
She always liked nicer things than me. She financed a 35K vehicle and I paid cash for a 12K truck. She likes debt more than I do. She is going to do one of those 0% down home deals and finance all her furniture and tvs. She is trying to buy her happiness and I'm worried about her.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years