Your posts are always SO insightful and I appreciate you for that. I have been struggling a bit this week, after seeing a big mushy post on fb about my XH and his new wife celebrating their first anniversary and I have been beating myself up all week about why it bothered me so much. This post really helped me hash it out in my mind and I am very grateful that you posted it when you did. You are wise beyond your years, MB!


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids