Sorry to read this Cil and I hope he's doing okay. I would extend an an offer of help should he need anything and he can then choose to reach out or not.
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T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus