Hi Forbet,

I'm sorry you're having to go through this but it's salvageable. Please read the thread about being the lighthouse Cadet has posted if you already haven't it gets you into a great mind set.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2484619#Post2484619

People on here will help please keep posting on your situation so that a clearer picture can develop with that they can then better advise.

Be patient, be strong and take care of the little one's.

Mark.

DR'ing started March 2017

Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".