Boston Dad in need of Help

[Teppo]

Thanks, Acc for your candor and insight. However, it's discouraging to read that despite your best efforts to implement DB techniques, you were not able to save your marriage.

Since I last posted, my situation has not improved. I continue to follow a detachment course, but it's not having the desired effect on my wife. I feel better though about myself. My workout routine, coupled with the stress-related weight loss has resulted in a mighty impressive body for this 44-year old. Since Saturday, I've also have stopped looking at her phone, which has been helpful as well. I continue to focus on just having fun with my son as I sense my time with him is fleeting. I haven't been served with papers yet, and this is probably due to our Deacon who advised my wife to slow it down. Surprisingly she has listened to him, but I'm confident she'll file as soon as she determines the counseling sessions are not worth her time. She no doubt continues with her EA. I spoke to her mom and she is fearful of a divorce and what it'll do to our son. She suspects an EA as well and is very disappointed with my wife.