Wsh, well I prob won't be asking that but I have asked a similiar question under a similiar issue . Her response would be that she doesn't think our relationship could recover from such a mess we are in. She says my family hates her and that it would never be the same around them. I kept her leaving a secret from them for 6 months but when I found out about the A I broke down and told them. It's been a rough road for sure. I'm sitting here in a bit of pain. I knew it was coming and I also know that there is no way my M or me will get better without being completely destroyed. I think I have been destroyed enough. Time now to start new. I have nothing left to hold on to. Maybe she will like the new me. I'm sure we won't just never talk again. I'm really close to her family so we will cross again.


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old