Juju, my ex is the for show involved type. He will show up at some events and do some projects with her, but otherwise, he leaves the rest up to me. I, like most of us, have this vision of raising a child with ur spouses and sometimes it just doesn't turn out how we imagine. The good thing is I get to make the decisions. And me and you girl, we really do need to try not to let those who don't want to be here have so much space within us.
AS- I said it in your post, yup, he is a firefighter, an actual paid one. He was my boyfriend. I explained why we broke up in your thread. It stinks really.
At D9's clap out, ex his wife, his sister and D9's little cousin came. He hugged his sister hello, his niece, then I guess he felt it would be rude if he didn't give the Italian hug kiss hello thing so he did. We haven't done that in years! So awkward. I asked OWW to take a pic of the 3 of us, then I offered to take a pic of the three of them. We all went to lunch after and .......drumroll please..... he paid for everyone! I almost fell off my chair! Big man on campus! We were talking about high school reunions, and me and him, and sister all went to the same HS all separated by a year. I told exsil that I saw her ex boyfriend a year ago (pretty much the love of her life, although they were a dysfunctional couple) then we talked about her other exBF who was in my class. he cheated on her and every other GF and apparently his exW. She says "yup, once a cheater always a cheater!" ex nd OWW got real quiet! HAHA!
I've said it before and I will say it again. My life is so surreal sometimes. I'm pretty sure I have repented for all of my sins for dealing with them the way I do, lol.
