Thanks I appreciate that. And yeah they were renting a small apartment but buying a house is a pretty big step. Its about 15 minutes from me.

And yeah you are totally right about mending one day, its just a blow ya know. Just a bunch of surprises. Walking into our house on October 7 and finding nothing and now shes getting a new one is bringing up some bad memories.


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old