It is really exhausting reading your answers. I would recommend you reread your threads.
YOU ARE SPINNING. Dude, you are spinning your wheels, making a heluva lot of smoke and going nowhere. The whole forum is talking to you, but you are not hearing. OH, you say you hear us, but the meaning escapes you. I have no problem with people not taking advice, but people not taking advice and then asking what happened... It sound like mocking a true effort from all of the group. I get you dude, I hear you dude, I was you dude, until I stopped trying to stop the hemorrhage with a bandaid. IT WON'T WORK! And the sooner you realize it, the sooner you will be on your way to a way better place which can be described as hell. I was there dude. I am not there any more. And I do not plan on going there anywhere soon.
Now I hope you have came to the realization why you are not ready to date yet. Not nearly ready. And any other pep talk you hive yourself about your GF is just cow patties.
You seriously have to stop and just breathe. Not chase skirts, not trying to rescue anyone, just stop and breathe. You have at least a year's worth of healing to do. I am surprised, shocked even, that no one of the posters and not even you pointed out the elephant in the room. Your 1st marriage imploded, you went out, got a quick fix and guess what, it also imploded and what do you do? You go get yourself another quick fix and then you still wonder WTF went wrong...
