Got it thanks. I'm a amazon junky and it was cheap so that's done. I'm an outside guy but its on 19 days of straight rain here with another 5 to 7 likely. I'll just continue reading.

M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old