Thanks! I like that and I will look up that book. I'm with you, I would rather face to face as well. W couldn't face me when she left or about A. 90% chance she will do that with D too if it comes to that.
I wish I could remember the name of the book, it escapes me. I looked online and searched my Amazon purchase history but don't see it. Maybe someone else will chime in. It's a really great book to read that has many parallels to DB'ing. There's a great chapter in there on chase/ pursuit too.