Well last night didn't go as planned. The baby was crying g so much he took him in the car for a ride. He was visibly frustrated. He looks so miserable. Even my dad said when H came by he is so checked out and looks so miserable. He said it's like we are repeating history because this is exactly how he was last time. Anyway he brought me the baby at 1230 after he got back from driving him around... the baby woke up by 1245 and was up until 130 fussing. Then woke up at 3 and 5 to eat. H didn't get up and I didn't bring the baby out there. I figured it was the first night so I wasn't going to be crazy but if he comes back again I will give him the baby each time he wakes.
I sent H a text this morning 'thanks for staying'. Figured I should be appreciative even if it's him doing what he's supposed to.
I'm REALLY struggling today saying nothing about the boss daughter. They have been texting non stop since the concert Saturday. Now I'm wondering if they were talking via FB this whole time and waiting until he left to start talking on the phone bill this way he can say nothing happened til after I left. That's exactly what he did last time. He was talking to OW then once he left they started talking after and he said ya nothing happened til after I left.
So writing here helps me say nothing because you lovely people advise me so well but I would be lying if I said I didn't want to tell him listen I know what you're doing. Living with your boss and staying there to be with her daughter just like last time. I also want to text his boss - what kind of mom and woman allows that. I mean I just don't get it. Regardless of whatever story he tells them we have a newborn.
