What was your response to ex-gf?

My concern is that you told her you need to work on yourself right now and maybe reconnection will happen in the future.

One of the common traits of a WW is that they will give LBS just enough hope to keep them available, have their safety net.

I believe some LBS put off the hard work of fixing themselves in hopes that WW will comeback, and LBS thinks the then they won't have to do the work.

Are you now stringing your ex gf along so you have a safety net?

M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized