I'm a very lucky person, but still fine tuning

[woundedfool]

6 posts apart, 3 years apart, and I have to say I'm intrigued.

Technically you can credit Cadet for that, he was kind enough to just merge some old threads of mine together. Serves me right for not participating more.

What we say we would do, in a hypothetical, is based on emotion and changes based on where we are in life at that particular moment, but what you said you would do really has no bearing on what you do when it actually happens.

Yes, amazing how the hypothetical changes once reality sets in. I think you see that on those silly lottery shows... picking people apart because they win obscene amounts of money, and then discuss how you think they are crazy for spending high six figures $$$ on a car. But if the shoe is on the other foot...... color me driving a Tesla.

I don't know what your relationship with her has been over the last few years,

Just to give color: straight from DB... I have treated her like a friendly neighbor.

I see you have a D

Sorry to nit pick... but its an S And to toot my own horn, I think we do a good job co-parenting.

btw - I realize she didn't say that she would like to try again, but I definitely think the intention was to open a conversation.

I think that is a fair assessment.