"Reading your above comments it sounds to me like it IS moving forward. Probably not as fast as you want it to, but you're on her timeline, not yours."

Man AnotherStander you rock! You almost always sum the situation up and several of these stories I recognize myself in. But it is always easier to recognize and point these things out when you aren't emotionally involved. I know these things are true (and clearly all of these hundreds of posts seem to fit a similar pattern) but then actually doing it.

Lex23: if you mean this "My life is what I want it to be, with or without W in it." I think you are doing amazing and will be fine.