Life has been surprisingly good this past few months. we are getting along and have had some great times. She has had some new successes with her painting business and this has definitely lightened her mood as well.
That actually sounds like outstanding progress! People expect recon to happen like a bolt of lightening but it rarely does. It's usually a slow, gradual process. That's why DB'ing talks about looking for baby steps instead of big moves.
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I'm feeling like there is really nothing I can do at this point but keep waiting and hope that she will want to be married to me again.
DB'ing emphasizes getting out, GAL'ing, improving yourself, being the best you that you can be. Work out, try a new hairstyle, start wearing cologne if you don't, buy some new clothes. Don't sit around and wait, get out there and be amazing! Be someone your W can't help but be attracted to.
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Is there any way to encourage this to move forward without pressuring her?
Reading your above comments it sounds to me like it IS moving forward. Probably not as fast as you want it to, but you're on her timeline, not yours.
