You may be right. In this case my W convinced herself that somehow she can just be friends with OM. She wants to talk about him and then I walk away and she then wonders why I walk away.
I really wish she had more friends here that she can hang out with. He truly is the ONLY person that doesn't know me and who she can hang out with.
But I need to quit wasting my energy. Either she is deceitful and there is no point in wasting energy OR she is trying and my actions make it harder for her. It's just really hard when she talks about at some point probably hanging out with OM. She frames it as friends and I want to believe that but I just don't see how this makes sense at all.
