I just caught up. We came here at the same time to support one another and you helped me a lot. The sadness and anger cycling sounds like a healthy mourning of the death of your m which you loved and tried very hard to save. You are on your own path now, not of your choosing, but it is all yours. Are you getting he help and support you need from friends and family and professionally, if needed? You've been taking care of w so long...now you've got to take care of you...and the kids.
Have you told the kids? How did that go? I also want to be honest with my kids if I ever had that discussion but don't know how to do so.
How are the new living arrangements?
Did you finalize the separation agreement?
What are your next steps from here?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
