The DB community verdict is in. A decision by mass majority is hawho is to carve out a weekend away. Joking aside you should consider it, but if you do so it is to take your mind off this situation and not a weekend of soul searching about it. Pamper yourself. You are worth it.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together