H just told me he's leaving at 3am to go to work like he 'has been since last week'

I have proof that he hasn't been going to work at that time at al.

I just said to put the baby in my room when he left and to wake me up.

My head is trying not to spin that he's leaving to go to OW. But I'll be able to see if that's where he goes

M 31 H 34
S 6 S 9
BD 2/14 Piecing 8/14