Yeah, stay out of the OW's head. Leave it to H to have those realizations. But you can help him along by being a strong woman and mother, with your chin up ... handling YOUR business and not getting dragged down in their childish, hurtful muck.

Ain't nobody got time for that! Except people with wayyyyy too much time on their hands! But you can help H with that problem, too, by giving him the kids to watch while you're studying and working and going to school etc. etc. etc.


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014