T, THIS is how you give him a glimpse of the life he says he wants! You don't even have to say a word. This is, like, the equivalent of civil disobedience!
Meanwhile, I know how hard it must be to hear the baby cry. But your H is a father, and he is capable! Let him handle it.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
