If I just know he's texting her but not the content of it do I say something. I just as the times they text was during his drive then each time he went t in the bathroom or to take the dogs out. I walked out there once he was on his phone but then opened the alarm app like he was setting his alarm.
But he was texting her from our bathroom.
He's out on the couch now he brought me the baby and went to sleep. Kind of defeats the purpose of being here but I didn't say anything. He barely speaks to me anyway.
Well, at least you know he's not texting anyone. Lol! Get your homework done. If the baby wakes up crying, see if H is going to wake up. If not, take the crying baby to him.
Get the homework done and then please pay someone to film you giving him a crying wailing baby, and then show US. Because I'd pay to see that.
Also, if he wants freedom so much (which is suddenly, really appealing to me)
let him have alternating weekends with all 3 kids - and you get some sleep, AND then have Fun...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Well the baby already woke up crying and he didn't come in.
I'm breastfeeding so I kind of have to feed the baby but the plan was he would have bottles the nights H is in charge. I see how that's going already
Get a PUMP and ASK HIM FOR HELP...tell him what you need without anger. He's not exactly tuned in.
If you say nothing but you are breast feeding, he'll put it in the "well, she's nursing so, you know, I can't do anything or read her mind or ask her if she needs help"...
And you don't have to be the martyr juggling 5 things while he naps, seething with resentment .
Express your needs as clearly and calmly as possible.
Sometimes I had to pretend I had taken a tranquilizer to talk to h...as if I was almost sedated so he would not "feel attacked" and I mean that.
Tensions are just too high atm
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Ya I asked him earlier what he wanted to do because I was going to put the portable baby bed out there. He said it didn't matter.
He's out there just laying awake on the couch listening to the baby fuss. I fed him one and am feeding him again right now and then I'll bring him out there because the baby from 11-1 is super fussy. Isn't hungry just doesn't ever know what he wants he fights his sleep. And once I found out earlier H was going to stay the night I may or may not have let the baby sleep all afternoon and work him up right before H got here lol... my dad said he also just gave the baby some tea before H got here lol
Do you have any bottles pumped already? Just tell H where they are and give him the baby. I mean, babies fuss. You deal with it all the time. I think H can handle a night or two. He's clearly had too much time on his hands lately if he can juggle texts with so many ... ahem ... others anyway!
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
