Also I forgot to mention that S13 asked W if she cheated on me last Thursday when I was out of town. Surprisingly she told him the truth, which caused him to go off on his mother. That was followed by a bunch of questions that W refused to answer. This only pissed him off more, which led him to storm off into his room. One would think that this would be a wake up call for her. Especially considering that he is demanding to know who the OM is. And I know S13 is expecting me to answer all or at least some of his questions. W wants me not to answer anything, but to calm him. This is clearly for her sake. But to be honest, I have no issue with telling S13 that his mother was having an affair with his Aunt's married cousin. Any opinions on this matter would be appreciated.
Also as far validating my W. I did that heavily, even to the point of sending W a text the next day about me hearing everything she said and admitting that she was right. And included a sincere apology as well. W said that she very much appreciated the apology.
But a serious question that I have for the group is following Sandi's 37 rules. Because even though you follow these rules, Sandi herself admits that you have to be firm with the WW or she will run over you. I've heard people mention that you should step up and not end up getting friend zoned. So what's the deal?
