We cross-posted. Head back up to see my suggestions on him texting OW.

I certainly wouldn't keep myself locked up in a room in my own house. But I also wouldn't start a convo with H unless you can think of something to talk about that's not about your R or family ... and you can smile and act detached.

Do not talk about anything that seems heavy or burdensome. That takes work off the table. And the baby's sleep schedule.

I know those are the reasons you need help. And while I'm mad as he1l that he isn't there to help you with those things, I don't want you for even a SECOND to let that boy see you sweat! A damsel in distress is not attractive, no matter what the fairy tales told us.

You, my dear, truly DON'T need rescuing. You are MORE than capable of handling anything thrown at you.

BELIEVE it!


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014