First time here, part 3

[PsySara]

Then detach. I would start acting as if I am moving on and have someone go over and pack your stuff. For someone to miss you they have to actually...miss you. Instead of being so transparent (telling him where you were going for your trip) be mysterious and vague. He needs to know that you aren't just saying the words but are really moving forward. He would be a fool not to chase you. Think back to when you first met, would you pine away for a guy who stood you up 4 times? No? Then why do that now. Make your plans and he can be the one altering them. Instead of you scheduling around his "visit" you can do your GAL and he will have to be the one diving in to find you.