I apologize if I took over the thread and made it about me ...

25, I had the same thoughts/questions as you. I just wasn't sure how to articulate it.

I too am wondering his thoughts/feelings in this process? Was there a need to have control? Any stubbornness? What are your 180s? ... Would your W would say this is some of the same behavior as before? I also wonder what her complaints would have been. I am not suggesting you change for HER, but am thinking it's always good to self reflect on what wasn't working & dig deeper.

Blu

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela