we want you to succeed. We support your goals, even if we question your methods.
I'm reprinting a piece of another posters comments and hope you will re-read it and give it some thought. I think you did not respond directly, so I hope you'll take it in.
That sounds like a lot of mind-reading to me. You sound very clinical about this, but this isn't a laboratory and your W isn't a lab rat. this^^^
You're dealing with emotions and emotions are ALWAYS a very unpredictable moving target. I just get the impression you think you have this all figured out and you're hosting an online class to educate the rest of us, No offense (really) but I got the same impression
LOL! And as a result you're not really listening or paying attention to anything anyone is telling you. And I suspect THAT attitude may be a contributing factor to why you are here in the first place, Yes^^^^ and if it is then you are engaging in more-of-the-same behavior. [b]Ask yourself if a 180 for you is to quit putting everything under a microscope and trying to convert it into an equation to be solved.[/b] Please take this^^^ in.
As a woman, it was kind of a turn off to hear you put all this into almost a math equation as if you are the professor examining a specimen you still feel is worth your time. So, Is^^ this a pattern for you?
I would like to hear more about how you FEEL & less of your well researched scientific analysis of her and the situation
I'm not sure I've seen someone here as certain of their path as you are. Which concerns me, to be blunt. I am suggesting you dig deeper.
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