[quote=T0324]Another bad night sleep with the baby.
H has been talking to his Boss's daughter as well as the OW at work. He was texting pictures all night with the boss daughter he's living wth all night until 1am. Does history really repeat itself again? This is very interesting...^^^ what did YOU do last time this happened, and are you doing the same thing now?
Or not? And what did you tell yourself back then, about what you'd do if this happened again?
Read your own words for guidance b/c we cannot tell you what HE is thinking or feeling
and sweetie I just don't think you are ready to take much advice from us if it takes more than a day or two.
As a mother of 3, I have a confession I don't want disclosed to my feminist friends.
but I was in law school for the first kid and I failed an exam (not a big "failure" in my life but I could not do it all)
and I was hospitalized during the 2nd pregnancy while working full time and h being in med school
something has to give and something WILL give if you do not stop the obsessing.
If you are not nursing, I'd ask your doctor for something to help reduce the anxiety
and if you are nursing START meditation.
I really mean that suggestion about downloading the "insight timer" or "head space" free meditation app on your phone. You are all over the place T0, and I've been there.
Take a breath and DO something new and different for more than a few days and I don't mean with your h, but for yourself.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
